宽恕是人生的智慧，多谅解他人可以带来内心的平静和和谐。我们应当学习从他人的角度看问题，并尽可能理解和接纳他们的毛病和过失。同时，我们也应当认识到自己也有出错的时候，因此需要学会接受自己的不完善，并给予自己宽容和慈悲的对待。通过这些方式，我们可以更好地处理人际关系，建立更深的人际关系，并从中取得更多的满足感和幸福。

初二完形填空，求翻译！在线等

有一次，一个圆圈失去了一块。圆圈想重归完整，便四处寻找失去的一块。但因为它不完整，所以只能滚动得很慢。它很欣赏沿途的鲜花和阳光。它和虫子聊天。它找到了许许多多不同的碎片，但都不合。所以它把碎片全部留在路旁，并再继续寻找缺失的那一块。

后来有一天，圆圈找到了一块完美的碎片。圆圈把碎片安上，那就完整无缺了。它很高兴，又开始滚动。现在，它是一个完整的圆圈，所以滚动得非常快，因为太快，看不见花或虫子。它发现当它快速滚动时，这个世界截然不同。它感到很难过，就停下来，把找回来的缺失的那一块留在路旁，然后慢慢滚动。

有时候，当我们失去了一部份时才是完美的。拥有一切的人在某些方面是个穷人。他永远不会有希望、梦想和更好的东西。他永远不会知道有人喜欢他或者给他一直想要或从未有过的东西。

我们都不可能完美，但我们必须勇敢地去爱，坚强地原谅他人，和善地与他人分享，及聪明地知道有我们身边有爱，这样，我们的生活就可以经常美满。

~~~~~~纯人手翻译，欢迎采纳~~~~~~

原文如下：

Once, a circle lost a piece of its own. The circle wanted to be whole, so it went around looking for its missing piece. But it was incomplete, so it could only roll very slowly. It enjoyed the flowers and the sunshine along the way. It talked with worms. It found lots of different pieces, but none of them fit. So it left them all by the side of the road and kept on looking for the missing piece.

Then one day the circle found a piece that fit perfectly. The circle put the missing piece into itself. It could be whole with nothing missing. It was so happy and began to roll. Now that it was a perfect circle, it could roll very fast, too fast to see flowers or talk to worms. It realized how different the world was when it rolled so quickly. It felt so sad that it stopped, left its found piece by the side of the road and rolled away slowly.

Sometimes we are perfect when we lose something. A man who has everything is a poor man in some ways. He will never have hopes, dreams or something better. He will never know someone loves him or someone is giving him something he has always wanted or never had.

We couldn’t be perfect, but we must be brave enough to love, strong enough to forgive, kind enough to share happiness with others and clever enough to know there is enough love around us and then we can always live a wonderful time in our lives.

2020全国卷III完形填空，话题为作者作为生意人与一百般挑剔的顾客之间的故事，以及从中得到的经验和教训--体谅他人，微笑服务。这篇文章夹叙夹议，很有代入感，理解起来难度不大。

文章第一句为简单的主谓宾句式，给出的信息很充分：我--businesswoman，care deeply about my customers. 第二句的一个But转折，就引导考生去思考和猜测下文的不同寻常的故事。

各段的主旨和具体细节：

As a businesswoman, I care deeply about my customers. But like anyone for whom you feel affection, customers can also drive you mad. They'll come rushing in, saying their handbag's been stolen. They'll swear that they left it in the changing room, create havoe and then discover it had been in their car all the time. They'll have out half the goods in the shop, and want the only style you don't have left in a partiular colour. I do know how upset the shop staff can get, but I try to persuade them to keep smiling 第一段综合介绍顾客与我之间的摩擦，找东西、对商品不满、抱怨等等。其中，所填入的词汇多为通过理解上下文即可捕捉的信息来确定，如customer，saying，discover，goods，smiling等，其中，swear这个词稍有难度，因为日常使用频率不是特别高。但是，此句的理解就真的很形象和深入了。They'll swear that ...他们发誓说，从这句话中可以看出，customers的难缠，也为下文的difficult做出了铺垫。

I remember the first really difficult customer we had at Covent Garden. She was displeased with absolutely everything, nothing was right and I was rather surprised that she became a “regular”. After a while, she apologized for the way she behaved at the beginning. She had split up with her husband the week before, was living in a flat by herself , and since she’d found it too much to cope with, she'd taken it out on other people.

第二段，作者具体介绍了一名很difficult的顾客。difficult此处就是熟词生意了，可能会造成学生做题时的困扰，此处指“难以讨好的人”。这段的几个词的考查均为熟词，而且是相当简单的熟词，通过故事的叙述，考生是能够抓准大意的。可能出现的难点是be displeased with，通过构词法的解词。a regular，常客。she spilt up with her husband与丈夫离婚。

That taught me a valuable lesson and I pass it on to the people who work in the market. Don't take it personally. If a customer is rude or difficult, just think "Maybe she's had a row with her husband. Maybe her child's not well .” Always water it down and don't let your ego get in the way. If you do, you won't be able to handle it and the whole thing develops into an unpleasant scene and that ruins everyone's day.

第三段，作者的观点和态度。这也是我非常喜欢的作者的处事方式。其中，don't take it personally，能看出作者的细心和用心。

说说“体谅”吧！

作为生意人，与顾客打交道会遇到很多烦心事。我很欣赏作者的观点和她处理方式--体谅他人，多微笑，减少摩擦。这正是服务行业所应该采取的沟通方式，其实，这也是为人处世的原则。

有一种说法--“人”是互相支撑的，这告诫我们今天你的体谅会换来更多别人对你的体谅，这样的社会才是最融洽的。家人之间、朋友之间、陌生人之间，均应如此。

作为老师，我们面对的是学生，我觉得“体谅”也是双方的。不和谐的音符总是偶尔会发出声响，造成人与人之间的不和谐，究其原因，也许是我们老师的一句唠叨，也许是学生的一句抱怨。生活中我们需要“发声”，但是，请选择好倾听的对象，也理解他们的感受吧！

我时常在控制自己的情绪，面对学生的不规，尽量做到对事不对人。即使这样，也还是难免与他们摩擦成矛盾。如何做，我觉得体谅是一种最有效的心理良药，能让人摆脱不良的心境和困惑。找个让自己平稳心情的理由先说服自己吧，心情好了，做事就顺其自然地好了，轻松和愉悦就随之而来了。

幸福的关键在于自己的心境，在于自己对人对事的态度。有人说“体谅作为一种内心的愉悦体验，是获得幸福快乐的最低成本途径，我们又何乐而不为呢？”